Now I know you are not used to reading such titles from me.. Forgive my crude language but the anger and hot tears running down my cheeks as I type this blog post, could only produce these words. Love they say is blind but is it? I mean... is it really? Read on and then answer this ............
Scenario
Boy meets Girl... Boy tries to woo Girl for months. Boy finally wins Girl over. They both start dating. Then, Boy cheats on Girl after three months..
Boy confesses to Girl and states that the person he cheated on Girl with is a good friend and things just happened.. Then Boy tells Girl that he still plans on hanging out with the SAME FRIEND he cheated on Girl with...
Oh... Then Boy tells Girl that he loves her...
Girl of course, is hurt and angry but feels things can be worked out..
So Girl calls Boy up and says "We need to talk". Boy agrees and they schedule a meeting.
Then Boy drops the bombshell.... "I think we need some space"
Girl, very surprised (since she feels she should be the one asking for space) asks "For how long?"
Boy answers.... "a month"
Then Girl stupidly says "I can do a month".. As if that wasn't enough she asks "Do u love me?"
Boy looks at her with no look of remorse as he says "I like you". Jesus H Christ!!!!
Girl swallows her tears bravely and says ok. Thank you..... They part ways as Girl fights back the tears...
Then Boy calls her after a few hours to say some crazy stuff...........
I think i still love you and believe that you can be molded to be the kind of woman I'm looking for..... What the fuck?
Oh.... It is then that Girl realises that this whole load of baloney has to do with sexual intimacy.... Its sad that Boy actually thinks he can manipulate Girl to forget her moral values and do shit she isn't prepared for, for the sake of love...
Good things usually come to Boys who wait. But if charm doesn't work, never think that ultimatums will definitely make things happen.....
Now, did I forget to say mention that this selfish Boy opened his mouth to say that Girl was not helping matters because he had a lot of girls throwing themselves at him.... Uggghhhh!!!
Girl realises two things...
1. The Boy she fell for is gone and a nasty devil has taken his place...
2. And, since she is not going to allow herself to be used and dumped in the end, she's made a decision...
Let him fly like a butterfly... If he returns, then they truly were meant to be.....
Signed: The Teary-Eyed Diva